You ask someone really close to you to help with moving into a new house. They say sure and then don't. Then get annoyed and ask why you didn't just hire some day laborers. Well, I don't know (sarcasm).
When they needed us we were there. It never occurred to us to tell those loved ones to hire someone.
Now we say we are thinking of hiring someone to do some yard work. Same person who questioned why we didn't hire anyone now says, "why didn't you ask me first?
Seems there is no way to win. Whichever thing you do is wrong.
It's exhausting. It's hard. It's our life at the moment.
The end (for now)